Marriage and the stability of society

Marriage and the stability of society are closely interconnected. The union of an adult man and an adult woman in marriage can contribute to numerous positive outcomes within society. The traditional concept of marriage, as established by ancient Indians, involves the ceremonial act of a bride (Vadhū) being given by her father or another appropriate family member to a bridegroom (Vara). This act signifies their coming together to fulfill the purposes of human existence.

Marriage serves as a means for procreation and the establishment of a family (kutumba). Upon marriage, individuals are believed to enter the second stage of life, known as the grihastha ashrama, where they assume the responsibilities of householders. The two families, previously unknown to each other, now merge into a complete family unit. The members of this family worked together to safeguard each other's interests and well-being.

In older times, when mortality rates were higher, there was a greater likelihood that children might not survive for long. In such cases, couples who were unable to have children of their own often received support and care from other family members, such as a brother's son or other relatives. This sense of familial unity and support was an important aspect of Indian culture.

For example, in the Mithila region (now Bihar and Nepal), where Sita was born and brought up, a tradition was observed where anyone from Ayodhya or nearby areas who married into the region was treated as a son-in-law and respected. This tradition still exists in certain parts of the country, where a girl from one village, upon marrying into another village, may not partake of food from her marital village. Such practices highlight the sanctity and significance of these relationships, which contribute to the strength and high moral values for which India is known.

Arranged marriages continue to be the most common form of marriage in India. The intention here is not to debate the merits of love marriages versus arranged marriages. Instead, the focus is on recognizing and acknowledging the longstanding tradition and arrangement of marriage. In contrast, there have been reports in England about individuals opting for cohabitation without any plans for marriage. Such a trend could potentially pose a threat to English society.

In the Sanatana Dharma tradition, marriage is often referred to as a nuptial tie. During the marriage ceremony, the priest invokes the blessings of good souls, gods, and goddesses for the couple's long and happy married life.

It's important to note that the above thoughts are purely personal and not intended to offend or challenge anyone.